Stories of a Life | Another Megan Story | Kibune Sushi, 1982

Megan, age 10, photo taken on a camping trip to Tofino in 1987Megan, my great daughter, age 11 (in 1988), am just putting the picture up cuz I like it …

In the 1970s, when I was “co-ordinating” the Tillicum Food Co-operative — honestly, a big deal, a multi-million dollar grassroots endeavour that not only changed eating habits across Metro Vancouver, British Columbia, and beyond, but put power into the hands of activists and working people — as Tillicum’s produce, and some other, suppliers were located in the area just north of Powell Street, and east of Main, Cathy and I would frequently stop in for lunch at the then one and only existing sushi restaurant in Vancouver, The Japanese Deli, I think it was called, or perhaps some other name.
As time passed, as Cathy and I moved into the Interior for me to take a job as a teacher, and she as a Financial Aid worker with the Ministry of Human Resources, and as I moved on from my responsibilities with the Tillicum and Fed-Up Food Co-operatives — although Cathy and I re-invigorated the Shuswap / North Okanagan food co-operative movement in our years in the Interior — we got out of the habit of eating Japanese cuisine.
I recall in the early 1980s attending a garden party at the University of British Columbia, accompanied by my friends Scott Parker and the late Daryl Adams — with whom I worked on the Galindo Madrid Defense Committee, in concert with Gary Cristall and the Committee for the Defense of Human Rights in Latin America, and Svend Robinson — the food on offer at the sunny, mid-spring afternoon political event, fresh sushi, the first time in years I’d had sushi, although I had long ago mastered the use of chopsticks (which took me four arduous months — one cannot honestly call me the most co-ordinated person in the world, but once I get it, it’s got!).

Kibune Sushi, in Vancouver's Kitsilano neighbourhood, on Yew Street, just up from Kits Beach

A couple of summers later, in the summer of 1982, when Megan was a whole five years old, I asked her one summer’s day where she’d like to go for dinner, to which she replied, “Kibune Sushi — it’s my favourite.” So, off Jude, Megan and I went to Kibune Sushi on Yew Street, just up from Kitsilano Beach. Once we’d seated ourselves in the tatami room, after a couple of minutes, the waitperson came by with tea and to take our order. Being the adult present, I set about to order — but, really, what did I know about ordering sushi? Not much I can tell you.
After about 30 seconds of my fumbling around with the menu, Megan looked over at the waitperson and said, pointing in my direction, “He doesn’t know much about Japanese food,” and then turning to me, she said, “Dad, I’ll take over the ordering. You just sit back — we’ll be good.”

Megan, aged 5 years of age, in the autumn of 1980

Megan, age 5, a ‘take charge’ kind of person, always

At which point, Megan set about to order …

“Well, given that my dad doesn’t know much about Japanese food, I think we should start him off with chicken yakatori, because that’s really BBQ chicken, and I’m sure he’s familiar with that. An order of chicken yakatori, then. Next, a California roll will hit the spot, I think — I know my dad likes avocado, and my brother and I do, as well. So, an order of one California roll. I like the yam roll, and I think my dad wouldn’t find that too confrontational — so, we’ll have a yam roll, as well.

(looking at me, Megan said) “Now, sooner or later, dad, you’re going to have to get used to eating sashimi. To complete our order, because all three of us are hungry, I’m going to place an order for an assorted sashimi platter,” which the waitperson dutifully wrote down.

So, that’s Megan: in control always, and I do mean always. Honestly, in the entirety of my life, I’ve never seen anything quite like it: Megan sets her mind to do something, and it’s done — almost like magic. Megan is stubborn, she knows her own mind, she knows what she wants, and she always gets her way — it’s simply unprecedented in my experience.
Oh, and did I say that Megan is a lovely, lovely person — tough, but wonderful, possessed of a social conscience, capable of much good, and one of the brightest, most able people I’ve ever met. And I’m not saying that because Megan is my daughter — she is simply a gift of our landscape.

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Vessi Footwear Pop-Up Shoppe | Vancouver | 1151 Robson Street | December 14, 15, 16 2018

While the members of our federal and provincial governments, and our newly-elected City Council, Park Board and School Board set about to do the work of the angels to make ours a freer, more welcoming, fairer and more just nation, province, city and region, the “big issues” of the day — given that for the first time in nearly 50 years, we are experiencing progressive governance at all three levels of government — are auspiciously and dutifully (if haltingly, at times) being taken care of, which is all to the good for Canadians, and particularly meaningful for all of us during this most festive and warm-hearted of seasons of good will.

Have you ever noticed, though, that while in the larger world — at work, with family, or with friends or neighbours — all goes well, it is the annoying little things that will tend to get you down, causing frustration and irritation (even if in the greater scheme of these things they don’t really matter): the jar that won’t open no matter what you do, the door that won’t close, the car that won’t start, and your shoes, socks and feet that get completely soaked when you step off a curb into a puddle, because there’s just no other option if your going to move forward.

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Vessi Footwear Pop-Up Shoppe | Vancouver | 1151 Robson Street | December 14, 15, 16 2018

Tomorrow, Saturday and Sunday, the good folks at Vessi Footwear will host one of their very occasional pop-up shoppes, where you can purchase a pair (or more) of their shoes, usually at a deep discount ($99 Canadian, usual price $135 U.S. plus shipping). Vessi Footwear is a Vancouver-based company, started by two, young UBC scientists, who distribute their shoes worldwide — after having raised a million and a half dollars on Kickstarter a couple of years back — and because Vessi is Vancouver-based, we’re the only jurisdiction worldwide where Vessi hosts pop-up shoppes for customers, so that’s good for all of us who live in Vancouver.

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$35 iPhone Battery Replacement Program Ends December 31st

iPhone 8 Plus

Own an iPhone SE or later & having battery issues? Or, maybe you want to get in on Apple’s iPhone battery replacement programme that, no questions asked, will give you a brand new battery for your iPhone for free — if you’ve got Apple Care — or, otherwise, for the relatively paltry sum of $35 Canadian ($29 U.S.), about half the regular price for battery replacement.
Apple is still offering $35 battery replacements for the iPhone SE, 6, 6 Plus, 6s, 6s Plus, 7, 7 Plus, 8, 8 Plus, and X. All of these devices are eligible for a discounted $35 battery following the processor slowdown scandal that Apple faced earlier this year.

After December 31, 2018, replacement iPhone batteries will return to their regular price. For most iPhones, replacement batteries will be priced at $65, with the exception of the iPhone X. Apple will charge $99 for an iPhone X battery replacement.
How to Initiate a Battery Replacement

iPhone lithium ion battery

To initiate a battery replacement, use Apple’s battery support site. You can take your iPhone to an Apple retail store, an Apple Authorized Service Provider, or send it in for replacement at an Apple Repair Centre. In my case, after clicking on Start a Battery Replacement, I chose the Bring in for Repair option, signed in with my Apple ID, on the next screen put in my postal code and my mobile service provider, clicked Go, chose an Apple repair location (in my case, I chose Apple, Oakridge Centre), and chose a convenient time for me to bring in my iPhone for the battery replacement.
Upon arrival, I checked in at the Genius Bar, spoke with one of the Apple Care staff, who asked me a few questions before taking the phone away for repair — the process from beginning to end taking about an hour and a half. When I purchased my iPhone about 15 months ago, the salesperson suggested I take my iPhone into my nearest Apple Care Centre once a year for a thorough cleaning. The number one problem iPhone customers experience concern dirty and / or plugged ports — to preserve the life of your phone, and to ensure a continued good experience of your phone, an annual cleaning is a necessity, I was told. Best aspect of the cleaning — it’s absolutely free! When I was given my phone back, it was sparking clean.

iPhone in hand

All iPhones will eventually face battery degradation issues due to the nature of lithium ion batteries. While performance management software was initially limited to the iPhone 5 SE, 6, 6 Plus, 6s, 6s Plus, 7, 7 Plus, and SE, Apple in iOS 12.1 added it to the iPhone 8, 8 Plus, and X to prevent future shutdowns should these devices suffer from failing batteries.
In the iPhone 8, 8 Plus, and X, performance management features introduced due to degraded batteries “may be less noticeable” because of their “more advanced hardware and software design.”
iPhones, including the XS, XS Max, and XR, will also eventually receive performance management software, until battery technology improves.
Final note: even If you’re not experiencing battery issues with your iPhone, it probably remains best to get your battery replaced before the programme ends, so you can avoid potential problems after December 31.

The Music of One’s Life | Tom Waits | Closing Time +

Pomona, California, 1950s, birthplace of singer-songwriter Tom WaitsPomona, California, Los Angeles county, 1950s, birthplace of songwriter Tom Waits

Thomas Alan Waits was born on the 7th of December in 1949, in Pomona, California, a little town located between the Inland Empire and the San Gabriel Valley, situated within Los Angeles County. His father, Jesse Frank Waits — about whom Waits would later say … “he was a tough one, always an outsider” — taught Spanish at a local school and was an alcoholic, while his mother Alma was a housewife and regular church-goer.
Waits was the second of three siblings, having both an older and younger sister, raised (as he’s often said) in a middle-class household, his “a pretty normal childhood”. He attended Jordan Elementary and later on Hilltop High School, where he was bullied. It was at Hilltop, though, where he learned to play the bugle and the guitar, while his father had earlier taught him to play the ukulele. Summers, more often than not, he visited maternal relatives in Gridley or Marysville, both small towns about 50 miles north of Sacramento, in northern California. Waits recalls that it was an uncle’s raspy, gravelly voice that inspired the manner in which he later sang.
In 1959, Waits’ parents separated and his father moved away from the family home; it was a traumatic experience for the 10-year-old boy. Alma took her children and relocated to Chula Vista, a middle-class suburb of San Diego. In Chula Vista, he fronted a rhythm and blues school band, The Systems, where he developed a love of soul singers like Ray Charles, James Brown, and Wilson Pickett, as well as country music and Roy Orbison. Later on, Bob Dylan became a catalytic influence, with Waits placing transcriptions of Dylan’s lyrics on his bedroom walls.

Novelist Jack Kerouac, listening to the beat of a new generationNovelist Jack Kerouac listening to the beat of a new generation, where as he wrote, “The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars.” Excerpted from Kerouac’s 1956 novel, On The Road.

In high school, Waits was a self-described “amateur juvenile delinquent”, interested in “malicious mischief” and breaking the law, a “rebel against the rebels”, as he eschewed the hippie subculture then growing in popularity, inspired instead by the 1950s Beat generation, with a great love for the work of Beat writers like Jack Kerouac, Allen Ginsberg, and William S. Burroughs. In 1968, at age 18, he dropped out of high school.

The Howl, Allen Ginsburg, September 1956

I saw the best minds of my generation destroyed by madness, starving hysterical naked, dragging themselves through the negro streets at dawn looking for an angry fix, angelheaded hipsters burning for the ancient heavenly connection to the starry dynamo in the machinery of night, who poverty and tatters and hollow-eyed and high sat up smoking in the supernatural darkness of cold-water flats floating across the tops of cities contemplating jazz, who bared their brains to Heaven under the El and saw Mohammedan angels staggering on tenement roofs illuminated, who passed through universities with radiant cool eyes hallucinating …

Waits spent much of the next three years traveling, picking up odd jobs here and there, taking college classes in photography, while all the while pursuing his musical interests, including learning the piano, all of which led to gigs along California’s coast, opening for acts like Tim Buckley, and Sonny Terry and Brownie McGhee.

Tom Waits, debut album, Closing Time, March 1973

Early in 1972, Tom Waits landed a gig at the Troubadour in West Hollywood, where he came to the attention of Herb Cohen, a music impresario, record company executive, music publisher, and personal manager for Linda Ronstadt, Frank Zappa, Buckley, and Odetta, among other artists. Cohen signed Waits to a publishing contract with Troubador Records — it was at Troubador that Waits came to the attention of David Geffen, who gave Waits a recording contract with his Asylum Records, the recording sessions taking place in Hollywood’s Sunset Sound studios, the resulting album titled Closing Time, released in March 1973. The rest, as they say, is history.

In a down period of my life, living in a tiny apartment in Coquitlam, teaching school, my Master’s programme falling apart, and the state of my marriage — if such a thing even existed anymore — undecided at best, I took solace with music from Waits’ 1980 album Blue Valentine, most particularly his version of Leonard Bernstein’s Somewhere, from West Side Story (which, for me, is the definitive version of the song). As you can hear, by this point in his career, Tom Waits had developed his signature raspy and heartrending voice. Both songs remain among my favourites to this day.